Some guys just need to be told what to do!!!!

Crazy, but I was sort of surprised that some guys agree with this sentence, because most of the time guys have no idea how to impress us or the things we like and enjoy. Of course it makes a relationship work, because sometimes when the guy does what his wife, girlfriend, whatever tells them how to dress, cook, places to go, and even gifts that they prefer. I mention this because I am a unique individual, FEMALE, who was raised like a son, but has that chick touch. For me I have always told my husband that I prefer tools for gifts rather than jewelry. Yeah, I know your probably like “WHAT THE FUCK?” tools to jewelry, and yes I love tools and collecting them. Proof is the factor that I always carry a knife or several knives on me, and when I am stressed and need a sense of peace, I would just flip my butterfly knife in and out of defense mode.

My husband tried to get me jewelry, I mean even my wedding ring bothers me, because I have never really been someone that needs jewelry. The most I wear is thumb rings, which is an expression of myself. However, I would have to say that the best gift that my husband got me was my Gerber, yes the multi-tool, also known as the Cable Dog tool. This is something I would always carry while at the hospital when I was a housekeeper and on into my IT Specialist months. Since the beginning I have always shown my husband the best way to dress, even though I have to say that I sometimes dressed better and I know I made some of the guys in the IT Department a little jealous of my style. I still change up my husbands look, but he enjoys being spoiled. Yes, there are even guys out there that act wholeheartedly like the woman/wife. Now these are the guys that love to be spoiled.

I mean my husband has more shoes and sandals than I do, and my shoes last up to 10 or more years. I guess I was just raised the traditional way and I make sure that I walk the path that was put down before me, even when it gets rocky or I fall down and break some shit, but I pick myself up and proceed forward. No weakness, but there are guys that love to be told what to do, they like being spoiled, some guys just want you to spoon them. It is just that simple, but a guy having a badass bitch is always a great and hot thing, because no matter what we are the Wonder Women in their lives. In my case I was nicknamed “Mrs. Rambo”, when my husband was at Ft. Bliss, now it’s just Joker or Mister J!