Failure as a Mother?

Sometimes I feel this way and I know that there are other mothers that deal with this in some moments. We try to protect our child as much as we could, but overall I can proudly state that I raised my daughter since she was born. To believe that my sister in law called me a bad mom, when she has never raised her own kids. I mean she just leaves it to her mom to take care of them and she lives next door. Can you say a leech, and then to make things worse they eat at her moms, next door and then go back. I was also the one that took the time to teach my daughter how to read and write. I taught her many things that will help her on her journey through this life. I mean my daughter is in college elsewhere and by herself, making sure that she gets what she needs done. Not like a bunch of freeloaders, both my husband’s sister and brother.

If I was such a failure wouldn’t my daughter gone a certain way that her grandpa had said she would experience. No she will not get pregnant, because she is smart and not trying to hook up with someone that looks like 2Pac. That is the way that my nephew in law was conceived. This was the way that she chose her babies daddy. My baby is studying Psychology and now she is back today so time to enjoy her company again. Did I mention she is also a Sophomore, while her cousin is in a community college for becoming an architect, who the hell goes to a mediocre school to learn something that is way up there, which makes me think that he does not have that drive, but more than likely he’ll become like his mom. This bitch actually went to a community college that took her 8 years just to get a bachelor’s. If I’m a failure, what the fuck does that make you Chata? Because I am an alpha and fighter. I love my daughter so much, I would die for this baby, so stop labeling a bad mom when you didn’t do any of that.